Wife and mother why hard " kiss "
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Analyse: Wife and mother why hard " kiss "

Common saying says: "Old daughter-in-law boils a mother-in-law " , the relation between wife and mother, all along is an indispensable theme in Chinese family concern. Why can there be so much contradiction between wife and mother? Where is the contradiction between how correct processing wife and mother? Below, our put up with a small case, talk about our view to this problem. [Jilin marriage celebrates a net]


This is a very lively family. Mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, 3 people live the husband together. Common saying says: "3 women make fun of " , here two women, also hit extremely. The mother-in-law is urgent disposition, the daughter-in-law is overcome, two people are troubled by contradiction every day; The husband is a good temperament, meet wife and mother to quarrel, what does he say, laughed to calculate only. Daughter-in-law blames a mother-in-law to him, he is listening; The mother-in-law says to him of daughter-in-law is not, he also is listening. Such family, it is China urban and rural an epitome of two hundred and seventy-six million four hundred and forty-seven thousand two hundred and thirty-two traditional families. The silk thread that wife and mother concerns, cut ceaseless, manage is random still. [Jilin marriage celebrates a net]

Case study:

1, between tripartite part suit very quickly hard

To the man character, the part before marriage: Outer be beloved cummer " lover " , be in the home is mom beside " dutiful son " . Two parts after marriage can change immediately, he must be a love wife and have manly " husband " , also should be at the same time as erst kind already obedient filial " son " . But this is very difficult really at the same time reach every aspect of a matter. [Jilin marriage celebrates a net]

the lady to newly-married, since can act like a spoiled child to husband random " madam " , also be the mother-in-law in the home at the same time docile " daughter-in-law " . This is a very big challenge.

To the mother-in-law? She may feel place of woman of the authority in the home for the first time shake, and the helplessly son that looks at oneself gets " ab extra woman " the left and right sides.

Problem of wife and mother complex in be the germ conflict at this kind of part, square very hard at the same time the pressure of this tripartite face. [Jilin marriage celebrates a net]

2, " love " competition and menace

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